Meeting a person with a great personality feels amazing. But sometimes we don’t like a person, even if we have met him for the very first time. The gist of what I am trying to say is that some people can leave an impact on you. An impact which can be positive or negative, it’s up to you. But on the other hand, many other people fail to do so. Have you even given it a thought, why does this happen? The simple and straight answer to this question is, it happens because each individual has its own personality. In making a very first good impression on any stranger your personality plays a very vital role. A personality becomes charismatic when you know the right tricks. A college may never train you personality development but you yourself can. As we all have heard that the first impression is the last impression or in some cases everlasting impression. And in reality, it is true.
”PERSONALITY IS AN UNBROKEN SERIES OF SUCCESSFUL GESTURES”
– F. Scott Fitzgerald
As they say, Beauty gets the attention, personality gets the heart. To Sustain in the long run, one should prepare himself to Hustle every day to become better than what he was the day before. So, why don’t we take our first step towards success by maintaining an impressive personality first? Here are some things you need to learn to grow yourself personality wise.
Listen And Observe Carefully
One needs to develop certain skills that eventually help you to develop a good and effective personality. Good listening and observation skills are one of them. Listening someone carefully not just helps you to attain more knowledge but also leaves a very good impression of you on other people. Observation skills also play a very important role in the development of individuals as it allows you to observe the positives and the negatives of every individual which eventually helps you to develop a dynamic personality.
In today’s competitive world, developing self-confidence is one of the most basic things. Never confuse this term with over-confidence though. Self-confidence comes from being confident about yourself. Always be ready for the situation you are going to face. When you appear in an interview, search all the information related to the company, have everything on your CV that they might like, have a proper attire which makes you look professional and you will get the confidence all by yourself.
Read A lot
It is often said that reading is one of the greatest acts of Civilization because it takes the free raw material of the mind and builds castles of possibilities. To develop a dynamic personality one of the major ingredients is knowledge. One of the most common Pathways of attaining knowledge is reading. Reading helps you to be open minded and assists you to interact with the world around you.
Socialize and improve communication skills
Communication skills can work wonders for building an effective and staggering personality. The more people you meet, the more knowledge you get and the more knowledge you get, you will be much more confident about yourself which will eventually help you in being more interesting. As in our country, English is considered to be the most important part of communication. Try to learn how to speak through books, reading novels, meet new people, talk to friends, watch English series and movies. But above all, start using it in real. Just reading a language is not the right way to understand it, speak till you get fluent in it.
Never hesitate to imitate and adapt
There is no harm in learning from your Idol. Even if a person is a stranger, try to learn from them. Train yourself to be adaptive. Rigidity in the field of personality development doesn’t help, as it stops you from learning more. Observing learning and imitating from great personalities and your ideas are also a good way to develop an impactful personality. Time management, dressing sense and body language are some of the major skills that can be learnt through imitating great personalities. Learn something new every day.